With so much desire for your Soulmate, why aren’t they here?

Discover the keys to draw the mate you’ve always desired and have been waiting for.
Embrace a dynamic new pattern of trust that allows you to manifest your desires without any
part of you getting in the way.



"When the student is ready, the teacher appears" is one of the most accurate statements for me. I became very intentional about creating a romantic, equal, spiritual, male partner and Riaka appeared at a meeting of healers. He was exactly the teacher I needed as I needed to know specifically my blocks which were stopping me from experiencing an emotionally available male partner. My life-long history was manifesting men who were emotionally unavailable. I made an appointment to see him and discovered exactly what was stopping me. Not only did I uncover exactly how I was blocking and sabotaging a partner from showing up, Riaka also gave me the information and tools to empower me to manifest my partner. The extraordinary good news is that the man of my dreams showed up within 72 hours after my session with Riaka. I would say it doesn’t get much better than that. I would highly recommend Riaka to anyone who was to create a romantic partner. October 2002

Soulmate Serenade

I am ready to be seen again by another.
Please come to me now.
I yearn for the mirror of myself
only you reflect so deeply.
My heart is open
ready to let love lead me
to a richer experience of life
with you at my side.
It is our time.
Hear my call
& let the bridge of Love between us
guide you into my arms.


— Betsy Finders 2003


Using Light Hypnosis:

• Learn just how available you really are – Say "YES" to Love

• Assisted by your Enlightened Self, clear away old ties that no longer serve you

• Discover what your ‘Voice of Doubt’ has to say & how to shift it from fear to trust

• Identify & move through the limitations of past relationship patterns

• Connect with your ‘Inner Mate’s’ trust & wisdom that creates a new template for relating

• Reawaken your ‘energy of desire’ into a strong call that draws your mate like a magnet

• Experience the ‘Soulmate Serenade’ & begin connecting heart-to-heart with your mate

Make new connections with fellow mate seekers. Expand your inner peace and nourish your desire for a richer experience of love in your life. Experience the internal shifts that make your MATE QUEST an exciting journey of the heart. Move from wanting to having your mate.



Weekly evening group for 6 weeks:
Experience a new transformative Hypnosis session each week.



To accelerate your MATE QUEST journey
we recommend utilizing our Hypnosis CD’s in this order:

Letting Go (Utilize both tracks 2 or more times.)

Creating New Ways of Relating (Utilize CD 1- 2 or more times. Use CD 2 as often as you like.)

Accepting Love (Utilize awake track as often as you like, sleep track every night for a month.)

Soulmate Serenade (Utilize awake track as often as you like, sleep track every night for a month.)

Additional CD’s to assist your journey:

Meet Your INNER MATE - A Key to Wholeness & Trust

Enlightened Self Love - Powerful Support for New Choices



What are the 3 most important qualities you want in your mate?

What are the 3 best things about YOU that you bring to relationships?

List 3 activities you most want to do with your Soulmate:

___I am "somewhat" involved and have been for ___ months/years

___I am currently alone and have been for ___months/years

Being on my own is: ___great ___ok ___lonely ___scary ___ the pits

My past relationships ended because of:
___lack of commitment ___my partner left
___infidelity ___the fire went out
___abuse ___other:
___I ___my partner ended my last relationship.
___yes ___no: this is a pattern for me

Do you feel you "get lost" in relationships? ___yes ___no ___some

Are you better at ___giving ___receiving love?

List 3 traits in past partners that you absolutely do not want in your new relationship:

What ways did you act in your past relationships that you do not want to repeat with your Soulmate?

Have you ever felt a part of you doesn’t believe that you can have the mate you desire? ___yes ___no

What "doubts" do you hear from this voice?

Did you have any of these challenges/experiences in your childhood?
___ divorce ___ abuse ___ death in immediate family ___ serious illness
___ alcoholic parent ___ drug abuse ___adoption

Are you good at always being truthful with your partner? ___yes ___no ___sometimes

Are you fully committed to finding your Soulmate? ___yes ___no ___somewhat



Creating a Sacred Space for Your Mate

Find a table or empty space to place your personal sacred items to call your mate.
Meditate daily at this space, opening your heart & calling your mate to you.


Suggestions for items to place in your sacred space:
Your (crystal)Heart. This is to fill with your energy of love & desire for your mate. Wear it in your bra or pocket during the day & place under your pillow at night. Feel yourself offering your open heart to your mate with this heart. Make it your magnet, the beacon that is calling them to you. Feel its power to send out your call.

Select a special song that is for your mate. Play it during your meditation & as often as you can. Dance & sing it out loud, put all your desire into the words! Examples: "Got to Get You Into My life", The Beatles, "I Know You’re Out There Somewhere", The Moody Blues, "Love, Love Again", Smokey Robinson, "Taking You Home", Don Henley, "Brand New Day", Sting, "All is Full of Love", Byork.

Scented candles to create your meditative mood. Play the song you chose for your mate while meditating. Add personal items that reflect the inner you that your mate will recognize & be drawn to. Pictures of places & activities that you want to share with your mate. Write a love poem that tells all you are excited to share of yourself. And what you are excited to feel with them. Energize being very open to sharing all of yourself. Add anything else you feel expresses your desire to have your Soulmate in your life.

Be creative & have fun!

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